We’re all women here, right?  Who doesn’t love a sweet, from the heart love letter?  Thought so. 

My “love language” is words of affirmation {if you don’t know yours, you MUST find out…http://www.5lovelanguages.com/…read the book too}

What does ”words of affirmation” mean?  It means that what you say to me sticks like hot glue right to my heart.  I need and crave positive words affirming me as a woman, mom, friend, sister, daughter, co-worker, on and on.  Words fill my love tank.  And words can empty it too.


I’ve been so busy lately I’ve hardly been able to tell my head from my rear. Seems like there is never enough time in the day to get everything that needs done DONE.

Can I get a witness?!

I had a convo with God the other day about how to get it all done and how to prioritize, what to cut out, what to keep. I’m truly wearing myself out just thinking about it right now. The word that kept coming up through that convo was “blinders”.


Hello, world.  My name is Becki and here is what I am: I’m a believer and follower of Jesus Christ.  I’m a wife and a mom of 4 girls.  I’m a photographer and I own my own business.  I live out in the country in a state where we experience the extremes of all four seasons (i.e. the incredible ice storm that has laid 1/2″ of ICE on the ground outside as I write this.  Only 60 days ’til Spring, people!  Yeah.  I’m keeping track.). 

Here is what I am not: A marketing genius.


My 2009 New Year’s Prayer….resolutions don’t work but prayers DO.

Father,

First and foremost, thank you. For giving me Your strength when I am weak, Your patience when I am anxious, Your understanding when I am confused. Thank you for loving me JUST AS I AM. I ask that You shine Your light in the yet dark places of my heart…help me sort it all out. You have my permission to squeeze out every last bit of yuckiness left in me.


Like most of us, I struggle with hope. Hope in God, hope in the good things to come and hope in others. By definition, hope is:
  1. A wish or desire accompanied by confident expectation of its fulfillment.
  2. In Christianity, the theological virtue defined as the desire and search for a future good, difficult but not impossible to attain with God’s help.

The book of Job is full of hope….Job’s hope that he will be healed and his heart will be restored. Job is ever so faithful and he cannot be broken….no matter what is done to his heart, his land, his fortune, his health. He BELIEVES that God is what He says He is, only faltering from that faith for a split second. Job trusts God. He just does.


I am never surprised when God sends me that gentle (and sometimes not so gentle) reminder that He is there….working for me, in me and through me. Here is the latest….

I love the story of Noah — how God rid the earth of all the yuckiness (no, that is not the actual word used in the bible), spared Noah, his family and two of every animal on the earth. I love how at the end God gives Noah a rainbow and a covenant promise….a promise to never again flood the earth. Each time I see a rainbow I smile….knowing that God is there, has a plan and He wants me to know that He hears my prayers. A rainbow gives me hope. A hope that no matter what lies ahead of me or behind me, God is there as He promised He would be. I just need to remain faithful. I may be swimming in deep water during my “flood”, feeling like I might not be able to stay afloat much longer, but God knows and will throw me a livesaver just in the knick of time.

Yesterday, as I was driving home I decided to stop along the road and take a few pictures of the soybean fields. For those of you not from the midwest, you may have no clue what soybeans even are….have no fear. Google it. :) Anyway, I’m not sure if this year they are prettier than normal as they turn and are getting ready for harvest or if my eyes see things in a different way these days.

Then there it was….a rainbow….placed right there just for me.

I know it was for me because as I was driving I was asking God to keep me on the right path…to show me where to go, what to do…I was praying that He give me a sign. I hadn’t “heard” from Him in a while. I was shocked when that rainbow just fell out of the sky. I really do love it when He does that.


One year ago today, my then 9 year old daughter showed the world her love for Christ. My church does full submersions and after she accepted Jesus into her heart at Vacation Bible School last summer, she wanted to be baptised. She is very brave!! Our church has over 3,000 members and at the service where she “did it”, there was over 500 people in attendance that morning. I was scared for her! And so very proud. She is my middle child and, therefore, the one who is always in the shadow of her sisters. It’s never intentional but we all know that is the “role” of the middle child. Not on that day….it was ALL TAYLOR. I wish I had taken a picture of it (I’m a photographer for cryin’ out loud) so you could all see it. I’m pretty sure God was smiling as He saw His beloved child show her committment to the world. She is a very special little lady.

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